I mean to get something like true love between 2 peoples, everybody of this relation has to see the other in his true self, not what their job is, their bodymass index is or what other things the other is related with. A kind of respect and accepting the true nature. But yeah, needs time to find out the true nature of another person and to love this kind of sould element of the other person… is another big thing 😀
I mean, you said you really would like to see him. Because you talked over a long term. So find out if its more than writing and expect the best. Try to overcome your fear. Enjoy the time with him, cause your feelings lead you to him. If its just a ons, you have clearness and got a wonderful night. If not, you enjoy the encounter some more.
It´s like the decision to be happy. it´s about a decision in realations to courage, to act out of love. I wish you get high feelings about that. well, nobody can give you really safety. thats something you have to give yourself.
I think after a person love hisself enough and esteem the time with hisself enough, it can start to see what other beeings trigger out of them.
They invest in you time .. attention and then you feel more trust? Can you explain it nearer?
If someone spends a lot of time getting to knowing me, then I know that this person is attracted by me beyond my physical appearance and worth it.
Without the attitude from man to admit that, its hard, ye.